Prelude: I’ve heard that Grandma Norma has been printing out these blog posts and reading them with friends. Hi Grandma! Thanks for supporting my adventures. You are missed and I will call you as soon as I can. This blog post is dedicated to you!
For the past few weeks I have been living in Coorg, a beautiful forested area that is well known for it’s coffee plantations and other crops.
Kate (from the study abroad program) is rooming with me in the house. Nisha, our housemother, has been accommodating with the zealous Coorg hospitality, which is found in every home we have visited. They almost treat us too nicely.
Kate (from the study abroad program) is rooming with me in the house. Nisha, our housemother, has been accommodating with the zealous Coorg hospitality, which is found in every home we have visited. They almost treat us too nicely.
Nisha and Muthamma drying rice in the front yard. |
The remaining family members are a set of teenage twins (it’s interesting to watch them bicker) and the grannie named Muthamma. She’s a charming elder lady who smiles constantly, doesn’t speak much English, but seems to enjoy our company.

Research has been going slow, but Coorg has proven to be a comforting home so far. It gets so relaxing that I tend to forget that I’m in a forest area, which holds many a’ dangerous wildlife:
In our homestay house there aren’t fans so I like to leave the windows open for a breeze, but doing that often brings in unwanted guests…
In Coorg there are plenty of trees, coffee bushes, and birds, but if you want to use the internet you’re out of luck. For a while, I believed that I was dependent on the internet to get research done. India forces you change one’s attitude to: “Just go with it”. Things here are constantly up in the air and you never really know how things work.
The following is a long tale of internet hunting (it’s a lot harder than you would think):
There is no internet at the home I am staying at in T. Shettegeri, so on my first day in Coorg I went for a run to find some- someone will have a café somewhere, right? I ran into townmomentarily forgetting that I am white-skinned, but the towns people definitely didn’t let me forget. There were stares all around directed at the crazy foreign girl running around asking people for internet.After asking about five different shops, one man came to my rescue and said there was one in Srimangala, the next town over. Continuing my run/internet hunt I finally came across the internet place that is conveniently right across from the bus stop. It was closed. The people who owned the shop said that it opened at four. I came back at four. It was closed. Unbeknownst to me, this was just the start to the never-ending internet hunt.
Internet cafés in Coorg are usually:
1. closed
2. open, but the internet isn’t working
3. open, but the power has gone out
If you want to use the web here the only way to get to it is with a 50-minute bus ride to the closest city, and even then it might not work.
It is frustrating, but now I’m appreciative of the easyinternetaccess back home a lot more. Living under these conditions brings me a bit closer to the way of life for most Coorg people, whether I like it or not :p
Nagarahole National Park and Irpu Falls

In India usually the only way for one to experience a national park is through a safari ride, Kate and I weren’t interested. It would have been nice to walk around and explore the park, but I was satisfied with the interview I got.
Next were the Irpu falls. The falls are located in a small town near to the national park. There were fun signs propped up everywhere reminding people to not through their garbage on the forest floor and animal facts and such. All of the signs were hand painted here’s one of my favorites with the endangered lion tailed macaque.
The falls were HUGE. Kate and I were feeling adventurous and climbed around the rocks near the bottom of the falls; the spray from the crashing waterfelt refreshing. This area of India is easily the coolest the air had been in the daytime since arriving.
Easily one of the best parts of Coorg so far J
The last part of our Coorg exploring day was a trip to a tea plantation. We learned about the conditions of the tea workers and a bit about the way the company is run.
Tea workers and tea farm
Wedding
Kate and I got ready for our first Indian wedding! It was an excuse to wear our saris again, even though we both agree that wearing these is a bigger hassle than it’s worth.
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Traditional warrior clothing |
Food: The food was traditional Coorg style: chicken and pork with vegetarian options as well, with two different kinds of rice at each meal.
Ceremony: The actual wedding ceremony took on the next day from 10am to about 10pm, an all day event. The main events of the day were the meeting and blessing of the bride and groom and the Ganga pooja. All of the people that attend the wedding line up to bless the bride and groom and give presents or money for the couple to have to start their life together. There were hundreds of people in attendance so this event took a few hours. Before giving the gifts the guest through rice at the bride or groom. Kate and I both were told to give Rs. 110 to the bride because the bride was a relative of Nisha,
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Ganga pooja |
The Gangapooja consisted of the bride and a couple of the women relatives dancing lasted 2½ hours. The bride had to walk very slowly from one side of a room to
another with water on top of her head while people danced around her
Sometimes it can last even longer, for example, Nisha had to perform this for five hours at her wedding! The people dancing represent them trying to “stop” her from reaching her destination. This acts as a test for the bride to show her dedication to the marriage (more or less). It seems to be more of a practice of tradition these days. Kate and I didn’t participate in this; why does she have to work so hard while people are dancing around her? Even though it’s a tradition, our feminism picked up from the Vivekananda Gender and Society course gives us a bias in situations such as this.
Music/Dance: The music at both the reception and the ceremony was ceremonial Coorg music; a couple of wind instruments, a few drums, and a few other percussion instruments. It had a steady rhythm and the melody was repetitive. People had a particular style of dance to go along with it. The dance itself was very lively and consists of simple dance moves easy enough for anyone to do. Here’s an example of the dance and music:
It reminds me of receptions that take place in the U.S., although, I wasn’t expecting “Shout” to be playing anytime soon…
These are just a few highlights from Coorg so far. Next time will be my trip to Madikeri, along with a new coffee plantation I visited.
15 days till America :D
Yea! 15 days to go. Another great entry into the blogiverse. Vivid descriptions and interesting environment in which you live.
ReplyDeletegood luck the rest of the way.
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